Monday, 31 March 2014

Maximize motivation of people around you


Motivated person is working 10 times better than unmotivated one. Therefore in this post i'm going to tell you about how to motivate people around you.


There are three keys to getting the best out of others and the first of these is appreciation. Every time you think about another person, you cause that person to like themselves more. You raise their self-esteem and you improve their self-image. You make them feel, that what they did was valuable and worthwhile. You actually empower people by expressing appreciation. And the wonderful thing about thanking other people, is that every time you say the words thank you, you like yourself better as well. You feel better inside, you feel happier and more confident with yourself in life. You feel more fully integrated and positive about what you are doing. When you develop an attitude of gratitude that flows forth from you, and all of your interactions with others, you'll be amazed at how popular you will become and how either others will be to help you in whatever you were doing. The second way to make people feel important to raise their self-esteem in give them a sense of power, energy, is by the generous use appraise and approval.

Psychological tests show that when children are praised by the people that they look up to, their energy levels rise their heart rates, in respiratory rates increase and they feel happier about themselves overall. The psychological law of reciprocity that says: «If you make me feel good about myself , I'll find a way to make you feel good about yourself». In other words people were always look for ways to reciprocate your kindness in to order. When you look for every opportunity, you do and say, that make other people feel good about themselves, you'll be astonished that not only how good you feel, but the wonderful things begin to happen all around you. The third way to empower others to build their self-esteem and make them feel important, is simply to pay close attention to them when they talk. The great majority of people are so busy trying to be heard, that they become impatient when others are talking. Remember the most important single activity takes place overtime, is listening intently to the other person when he or she is talking and expressing himself or herself. Again the three general rules for empowering the people around you, which apply everyone you meet, our appreciation approval and attention. Voice your thanks and gratitude to others on every occasion. Praise them for every accomplishment and pay close attention to them when they want to talk, and they'll want to interact with you. These three behaviors alone will make you a master human interaction and will greatly in power the people around you.


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